Healing After A divorce You cannot fully accept
What do you do when you cannot accept a divorce that has already happened? This post explores how healing can begin even without answers, clarity or closure.
Romeo and Juliet in the age of reality TV: helping young people recognize toxic relationships
Young love today is shaped as much by media and social media as it is by real life experience. From Romeo and Juliet to reality shows like Love Island and the tragic documentary on Netflix called Crash, emotional intensity, jealousy, and chaos are often mistaken for passion or "real love.” This post explores how those messages can shape expectations, how toxic patterns can develop in young relationships, and how parents, teachers, and therapist can help teens and young adult slow down and recognize the difference between intensity and emotional safety.
Love Bombing & Affairs
An affair rarely begins with someone intending to hurt others or abandon their values. Often, it begins with feeling deeply “seen”, emotionally connected, and understood after a long period of loneliness, disconnection, or unmet emotional needs. This post explores the complex emotional dynamics that can draw people into affairs, the powerful role of love bombing and fantasy, and why these relationships often become far more emotionally consuming than people expect.
Haunted by The Past: Understanding Generational Trauma & Attachment
Generational Trauma can have lasting effects on individuals and families. What do we tell our children about our own family history if there is nothing they can do about it? Read more about this as I explore my own family’s trauma in this blog post.
Why female friendships can feel so complicated: understanding attachment and connection
Nicole Beane Psychotherapy Blog Post