“Our wounds are often the opening into the best and most beautiful parts of us”
— David Richo
Hello, my name is Nicole Beane, LCSW-C and I am a psychotherapist working with adults, adolescence & families in Gaithersburg, MD. With over 25 years of experience, supporting children, teens, and adults, I've come to understand how every developmental stage of life leaves its mark on who we are today.
Though I now work exclusively with adults and teens, my years of working with all ages helps me see the threads that connects our past and present, and how early experiences, family patterns, and our personal relationships continue to shape our stories. This broader perspective allows me to help adults, not only understand themselves more deeply, but also navigate the relationships with the people that they care about, including partners, children, parents and others. My work with teens leaves me hopeful, as I see young people gain coping skills and trust in their ability to get through even life’s hardest moments.
My work is grounded in curiosity, deep compassion, and the belief that it’s never too late to grow in understanding and connection. My hope is that when you are with me you feel seen, heard and deserving of a good life.
You can bring your deepest emotional struggles to me, and together we’ll hold them with care. It can feel frightening to face them on your own, but you don’t have to. We will face them together, one step at a time and at whatever pace feels comfortable to you.
Warmly,
Nicole Beane
About Me & What I Do:
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I grew up in Montgomery County, MD so I understand first hand the stressful environment and the pressures to “succeed” living so close to the nation’s capitol.
I think some of us are born healers, carrying both light and a few tender wounds of our own. Maybe that's what allows me to truly understand the ache in others. It's a privilege to help my clients manage their emotional pain. To walk beside people as they rediscover the strength that lies within them, the strength that has always been there.
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I am married and have two young adult children, a son and a daughter. Beyond my work, I love learning through reading about therapy techniques and theories, taking long walks with my bestie, good conversations with dear friends, savoring anything chocolate, my morning coffee and anytime I get to spend time with my kids, specifically being on the beach at the eastern shore in the summer.
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My previous work experience includes helping patients at The Washington Hospital Center Adult Inpatient Psychiatric Unit, guiding emotionally dysregulated teens as a school therapist at The Children’s Guild, and assisting children and families in crisis as a therapist at Children's National Medical Center Psychiatric Day Treatment Program. I am extremely proud to have worked in Private Practice over the last 20 years as a psychotherapist to children, teenagers, adults & families, in some of the most difficult times of their lives. I have extensive experience working alongside some of the best psychiatrists, therapists, attorneys, physicians, nurses and coaches in the nation. I believe that people don’t exist in a vacuum. If it feels supportive to a client’s goals, I may ask if they want to include important individuals in our therapy sessions to assist in a client’s healing process.
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I am a Client Centered Therapist which means I believe that clients are the experts of their own lives and that my role is to provide undivided attention and empathy along with a safe, supportive relationship that helps you access your own insight, strengths, and capacity for change.
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I utilize techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Narrative Therapy and Psychodynamic Therapy, including gently examining attachment styles and how we unconsciously pick friends and lovers based on our relationships with early caregivers.
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I strongly believe that Mindfulness Techniques can help you slow down, notice your thoughts and feelings, and respond with awareness instead of reaction. Deep breathing, grounding techniques, guided meditations, and moving your body to stay present in the moment, can all help with overwhelm and panic. I am also certified in the Emotional Freedom Technique (tapping) which uses the body and mind to release emotional distress.
Together We Can Work On…
-Social anxiety, generalized anxiety, panic, and mood disorders, including bipolar disorder and depression.
-Managing the pressures of high school and college, executive functioning skills, employment issues, marital, family and friendship challenges, raising children in the digital age, becoming an “empty nester”, worry about money and retirement.
- Generational trauma, bad childhood experiences, and other difficult life events are often hard to talk about without the expertise and safety of a good therapist. Political uncertainty and a deep sense of unease about meaning and purpose in life can be difficult to carry.
These are just some of the obstacles that together, we can find a way to make more manageable for you. You are not alone. You are human in a messy world.
Until we meet, be gentle with yourself!
Have Questions?
You might still be wondering how therapy works, what to expect, or whether this feels like the right fit.
Phone: (240) 994.1357
Email: nicolebeanetherapy@gmail.com
Testimonials
“Nicole Beane is amazing. I highly recommend her! She is warm and inviting, which makes it easy for honest and real therapy to occur. Her calm and reassuring demeanor makes discussing difficult or stressful situations and topics easier. She is a consummate professional.”
★★★★★
“Mrs. Beane has been a tremendous help to our family. My college aged daughter sees her frequently and helps her in making big decisions. She also helped her with her first "break-up" when I felt so helpless because she didn't want to tell me everything.”
★★★★★
“Every year for the past two years I walk over for a therapy session with the lovely Nicole Beane.I have had therapists in the past, but truly none as caring or devoted as Nicole. She's not only a calming presence but finds a way to connect and improve the most complicated and sensitive parts of you.”
★★★★★
“Nicole has helped me with my marriage and my adult children. She is always available when I need her and her compassion for people really shines through. I look forward to meeting with her every 2 weeks and leave her with fresh ideas and the feeling that things are going to be ok.”
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